Just some friendly girl advice. I will never forget what one of my old friends had told to her. You see , she worked for a man that was thinking of leaving his wife , and he made it very clear he was interested in her. She turned him down , but asked him why the interest in her. His answer. "Because you always look nice. You always fix your hair, are dressed nice , have make-up on , and smell good too. My wife does not care how she looks anymore . This makes me feel she is not happy with me." So, I have always taken this to heart. If you want to keep your man happy , take some time for yourself. Take a shower daily, brush your hair , fix your face , put on "real" clothes and a little perfume now and then . You will feel better about yourself and your husband with be happy too! After all you represent him too. ( you do share his name, right?) Go on give it a try. What have you got to loose? :)